A new look at the Queen gives us the myths, anecdotes and comedy

And Brown gives a sublime description of John F. Kennedy’s meeting with the then Princess Elizabeth in 1938: “Thursday night … am going to Court in my new silk breeches, which are cut to my crotch tightly and in which I look mighty attractive.”

The Queen hardly ever put a foot wrong, though her obsession with horses made her unfair to one of her trainers, Dick Hern, whom she sacked despite his heart attack, thus “turning … the racing world into republicans … Even the most thorough Royal biographers tend to glide over the episode or to ignore it entirely”. But horses are the common interest that allowed her to chat with Lucian Freud when he did her portrait.

Brown’s is a consistently amazing book. Who would have thought that Allen Ginsberg would have lobbied for the Scottish singer-songwriter Donovan to be made poet laureate, but what a bright idea. Or that to Ted Hughes, who did become poet laureate, the Queen “was a complete surprise … She was tiny … She had a very lively expression, & spoke so openly and friendly, that I immediately got the idea that she liked me as much as I liked her.”

A fair way through, Brown gives us two brilliantly juxtaposed longer sections. In the first, Brown at the age of 20 meets the Queen and bashes her ears relentlessly about theatre.

“After all, I had to tell Her Majesty about The Resistible Rise of Arturo Ui and the various dramatic innovations (‘Really? Goodness!’) introduced by Brecht. Though I barely knew what I was talking about, and have now forgotten what little I knew, I now think it’s possible that, in a funny sort of way, the shadow of Brecht and his theory of alienation was being mirrored in our conversation, if you could call it a conversation … She was both a person and a symbol, a total stranger yet wholly familiar. And there she was in front of me, expressing an interest (‘Yes, I see, hmm, fascinating’) in everything I said. Who knows?”

Brown places this next to consideration of the essay paediatrician and psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott wrote about the monarchy. “Winnicott built his considerable reputation on the idea of the ‘transitional object’: an item such as a blanket or a teddy bear which stands in for the mother … As children grow to adulthood, they abandon their blankets and teddy bears, and replace them with more sophisticated transitional objects from the realms of science, religion and culture … The monarch was, he thought, just such a transitional object.”

This is profound stuff and it sits very suggestively with the charming description of the young Brown and the Queen performing her dance like an act of kindness.

The Queen described herself as an actress confined to one role but the account of her agreeing to Danny Boyle’s idea of having her parachute out of a helicopter at the London Olympics is done so plausibly that you almost think it’s for real. You can see why William and Harry called out “Go, Granny.”

She did get the line she wanted: “Good Evening, Mr Bond.” Ten years later she got more lines in her 70th jubilee skit with Paddington, which drew praise from the likes of Judi Dench for her comic timing.

This is a wise and brilliant book that will surprise large numbers of people with its realism and its emotional reality and its restraint. We learn a thousand facts, but it’s as if the debunking spirit of Private Eye has uncannily been suborned into giving the human lineaments behind a face that is both a myth and a transcendence of myth.

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